Rebekah Barnard

The reason behind this mission

For the next eight days, I’m walking 10,000 steps a day.

That’s 80,000 steps in total.

I’m not doing it for fitness. I’m not doing it for a medal.

I’m doing it for my son, Eli.

Eli is autistic and has ADHD. He experiences the world in a beautifully unique, intense, creative, and sometimes overwhelming way. Being his parent has taught me more about patience, resilience, advocacy, and unconditional love than anything else ever could.

But it has also shown me just how much more awareness, understanding, and support is needed.

Why This Is Personal

Autism and ADHD are often misunderstood. What people might see as “challenging behaviour” is often sensory overload. What looks like distraction can be a brain working at lightning speed. What feels ordinary to others can feel overwhelming to Eli.

Behind every diagnosis is a child trying to navigate a world that isn’t always designed with them in mind.There are appointments. Waiting lists. School meetings. Advocacy conversations. Emotional highs and lows. Constant learning. Constant adapting.And yet, there is also joy. Incredible humour. Deep passion. Fierce love. A perspective on the world that is refreshingly honest and beautifully different.

Eli is not defined by his diagnoses  but they are part of his journey. And they shape ours as a family too.

Why 10,000 Steps?

Because some days parenting a neurodivergent child feels like a marathon.

Some days are smooth and full of wins.Some days are exhausting and emotionally heavy,Most days are a mixture of both.

Walking 10,000 steps a day is my way of symbolising that journey  steady, consistent, one step at a time.

It represents the steps Eli takes every day in a world that can feel overwhelming.It represents the steps we take as parents to advocate for him.And it represents the steps we can all take toward greater understanding and acceptance.

What I’m Raising Funds For

The money raised will go toward supporting autism awareness and practical resources for families who need them  helping create more inclusive spaces, better access to support, and stronger community understanding.Because no family should feel alone in this journey.

How You Can Support

If Eli’s story touches you, I’d love your support.

You can:

• Donate whatever you’re able to
• Share this fundraiser
• Take time to learn more about autism and ADHD
• Show patience and kindness to families navigating similar journeys

Every share, every pound, every conversation matters 

For Eli

Eli, you are brave, funny, clever, determined, and wonderfully you.

These 80,000 steps are for you  and for every child like you who deserves a world that understands and celebrates them.

Let’s take these steps together 💙